Today I’ll be participating again in First Chapter First Paragraph, hosted by Diane, at Bibliophile by the Sea.
I’ll also be spotlighting the excerpt in Teaser Tuesdays, at Should Be Reading.
From Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake, by Anna Quindlen. (An ARC, so the language may change in the final edition).
From Anna Quindlen, #1 New York Times bestselling author and winner of the Pulitzer Prize, comes this irresistible memoir about her life and the lives of women today. Candid, funny, moving, Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake is filled with the sharp insights and revealing observations that have long confirmed Quindlen’s status as America’s laureate of real life.
As she did in her beloved New York Times columns, and in A Short Guide to a Happy Life, Quindlen says for us here what we may wish we could have said ourselves. Using her past, present, and future to explore what matters most to women at different ages, Quindlen talks about
Marriage: “A safety net of small white lies can be the bedrock of a successful marriage. You wouldn’t believe how cheaply I can do a kitchen renovation.”
Girlfriends: “Real friends offer both hard truths and soft landings and realize that it’s sometimes more important to be nice than to be honest.”
Our bodies: “I’ve finally recognized my body for what it is, a personality-delivery system, designed expressly to carry my character from place to place, now and in the years to come. It’s like a car, and while I like a red convertible or even a Bentley as well as the next person, what I really need are four tires and an engine.”
Parenting: “Being a parent is not transactional. We do not get what we give. It is the ultimate pay-it-forward: We are good parents, not so they will be loving enough to stay with us, but so they will be strong enough to leave us.”
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First Chapter/First Paragraph:
Life in the Fifties:
It’s odd when I think of the arc of my life, from child to young woman to aging adult. First I was who I was. Then I didn’t know who I was. Then I invented someone and became her. Then I began to like what I’d invented. And finally I was what I was again.
It turned out I wasn’t alone in that particular progression.
I began to discover that twenty-five years ago, when I created a column about my own life for The New York Times called “Life in the 30’s.” The thirty-four-year-old mother of two little boys, I was shaky and unsure, wondering whether their stories of sibling rivalry and toilet training, my stories of household juggling and family accommodations, would have any resonance outside the walls of our home.
I got the answer to that question soon enough….
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What do you think? Does it pique your curiosity? Make you want to read more? Come on by and share your thoughts and links.
That column sounds like a mom blog, which are very popular. Bet it was popular.
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Yes, I wish I’d read it! But I have read and loved several books by this author. Thanks for stopping by, Sonia, and enjoy your week.
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Not sure…I have read books by her but I am just not a person who reads memoirs…I am sure you will love it, though.
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Yes, I notice that I really enjoy the author and celebrity memoirs. Thanks for stopping by, Patty, and enjoy your day.
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Very different! Thanks for visiting!
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Yes, it is…thanks for visiting, Samantha, and have a great week.
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Laurel, I can so relate to all of this, especially what she said about “our bodies”. She and I are the same age. I can’t wait to read this one. Great intro as well.
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Thanks, Diane…I do enjoy this “peek” into the books via the introductions. Glad you could stop by, and enjoy your book…which I can’t wait to get my hands on!
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Sure I’d read this book. A columnist on life and women… Bring it on!
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I think it will be fabulous, Harvee. Thanks for stopping by, and enjoy your book…which I can’t wait to read!
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This sounds interesting. Her thoughts on marriage and a kitchen renovation made me laugh!
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Yes, I like her sense of humor and her down-to-earth style. Thanks for visiting, Karen, and enjoy your week.
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Sounds interesting. Thanks for stopping by to see my teaser!
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Thanks, Autumn…glad you could visit, too. Have a great week!
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sounds interesting! i’ve never heard of her before
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Oh, I have loved many books by this author…hope you can experience her work, Trish. Thanks for visiting and enjoy your week.
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Those are great teasers! This book must be exceptionally well-written! My teaser is HERE, if you’d care to visit!
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Thanks, Jenny Q. I do enjoy her work and I’m looking forward to this one. Glad you could stop by.
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I need to read that book. I love the quotes you picked.
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I like this author’s work, and I’m really looking forward to this one. Thanks for visiting, Jo, and hope you do enjoy it too.
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This is the best teaser so far today! So wise! I’ve never read Quindlen but am tempted now!
♥Melissa
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Thanks, Melissa…glad you liked it. Glad you could stop by, and have a great week.
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Sounds like a great description of many people. I guess we all go through these stages at some point.
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Yes, I love being able to relate to what others are experiencing. Thanks for visiting, Jessica, and have a great week.
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Sounds like a really interesting read! I keep meaning to pick up something by her 🙂
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Hope you do, Crystal…she has a great grasp on women’s issues. Thanks for stopping by, and have a good week.
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I’ve enjoyed many of Anna Quindlen’s novels and I’m thrilled that she’s written a memoir. this sounds captivating. I enjoy the way she writes, having read several of her columns and appreciate how candid she is.
I hope you enjoy this memoir, Laurel and I look forward to your thoughts about it.
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Thanks, Amy…I’m looking forward to it, having enjoyed her many novels. Thanks for visiting…and have a great week.
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Interesting, I’d probably be able to soon relate to her since I will have small kids and going through that kind of life in my 30’s! Thanks for stopping by 🙂
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Yes, it’s amazing how many similarities we find between ourselves and other women, no matter what age.
Thanks for stopping by, Vycki…and have a great week.
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Yes, I usually enjoy Quindlen & I love memoirs, so this would be for me. Thanks for sharing!
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Thanks for stopping by, Kim…I do enjoy Quindlen, and a memoir from her really piqued my interest.
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This sounds really interesting. I love the teasers you picked to share. I haven’t read a memoir in a long time, but I’m tempted to pick this one up.
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Thanks, Christine…I am quite captivated by this author, so a memoir from her is something I’m looking forward to….
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Those are great insights! I need to take note.
Thanks for sharing!
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I agree, Andrea…thanks for stopping by, and enjoy your week.
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I like what she says about our bodies!
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Oh, so do I, Nise…thanks for stopping by, and enjoy your week.
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This sounds good. I’ve loved her books before. Except for Every Last One, which I loved but I hated. Here’s Mine
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Oh, I know what you mean, Paulita…that book created mixed feelings in lots of people. Thanks for stopping by, and enjoy your week.
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This does seem like a sort of universal story – and from reading Quindlen before, I know that she speaks from (and to) the heart. Great teaser!
Thanks for visiting my blog today!
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Thanks, Cecelia…glad you could stop by, and enjoy your week.
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Love all those quotes. I’ve never read anything by Quindlen, but she sounds like someone with a lot of interesting things to say.
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Oh, I think you’d like her books, Joy. Thanks for stopping by, and have a great week.
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I’m adding this one to my list. It looks really good.
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I agree, Yvonne…thanks for stopping by, and have a great week.
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I LOVE the quote about “our bodies.” This sounds like a book I’d really enjoy.
Thank you for posting a comment on my blog. It’s been a busy day today, and I’m just catching up with Teaser Tuesday comments.
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I think this will be a book I can’t put down, Sandy. Thanks for stopping by…and I know what you mean about how busy it gets!
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Hi! Thanks for dropping by my blog!
Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake sounds great. Thanks for sharing!
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I agree, wuthering willow. I’m glad you could stop by, and enjoy your week.
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I haven’t heard of this author before. I loved her advice and insights.
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Oh, she has written some great novels, Shelley…hope you check her out. Thanks for stopping by.
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It does pique my interest! Thanks for stopping by.
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Thanks, Beth…glad you could visit today, and enjoy your week.
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That is very interesting – thanks for sharing and thanks for stopping by!!!!
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Glad you liked it, Kat…and thanks for stopping by.
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This one sounds really good. Thanks for visiting yesterday!
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Glad you liked it, Heather…thanks for visiting, and enjoy your week.
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Very different to what I normally read, but I’m intrigued.
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Lately, I’m drawn to writer’s memoirs…a lot. And this author is one of my favorites. Thanks for stopping by, T. F., and for “liking” this post.
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I’ve never heard of this before! It sounds good 🙂
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Oh, I loved it, Stephanie…full of insights and tidbits. Love this author. Thanks for stopping by, and enjoy your week.
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